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female
age
41-50,
*ity_gal
writes:Hi-In the past year of dating I've run into a number of men, who seem to be far more sexually aggressive than men I've dated in the past (lean over and kiss me without any warning in a bar; try to have sex on the second date despite my being clear that I just want to kiss, just become very generally passionate and intense, etc.) This has been my first time dating on-line, so I'm wondering if I'm just hitting a different pool, but these guys really don't seem like players (nice, a bit geeky, not too macho, not nearly smooth enough). But what really has me worried is that I'm giving out some kind of permissive signal, because several guys have told me that they're usually shy about kissing women, except for when they practically attack me, or that they're more attracted to me than they have been to anyone for a long time. I'm attractive, but no super model by far. I dress in a way that flattering, but not provocative. Are these just lines that men use to make themselves feel better/get women to let down their guard, or am I sending some kind of green light to get it on?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Ahhh ur dating online..Ive noticed from my own experience and other that those sites, eharmony, myspace, match, etc..are the new booty call. Myself not knowing this dated guys off of myspace and they were interested in nothing but getting into my pants. Another friend of mine uses a dating site she's in her 40's and she says the men on there are too forward only interested in hooking up. I wouldnt say ur giving the green light for wannabe players..Id say ur tapping the wrong resource. Or maybe ure really that gorgeous and these men just cant contain themselves!
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