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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we recently broke up 2 days ago. We both agreed we bickered too much and it was starting to take a strain on our love. So the only thing we didnt agree on was that I want to work things out and TRY to make it better but he says he just doesnt want it to go back to how it was before. It breaks my heart that i want to try but he doesnt. It was a calm and nice breakup but at the end he siad before the summer is over he wants to get together for ice cream or something. This is what confuses me! I dont get it. We broke up about a year ago as well and I kept calling, texting, emailing, anything I could to try to get him back and one day I told him i'm sorry i'm moving on now. and what did he do? he texted me back right away. asking why?! We didnt talk for about a month and then I contacted him to just say hello and ask how he was and we talked for about 2 or 3 weeks and we ended up getting back together. So this time, I havent talked to him at all. I WANT TO SO BAD, but i know i shouldn't. I hope that if i give him time and he knows that by me not calling that that shows im moving on, that he will come back and realize we should work things out. I feel like we broke up over something that wasnt a big deal and could have easily been fixed. I want him back so bad, my heart is breaking because I know hes not here with me, Ive been keeping myself busy as much as I can all the time to try to get my mind of of the situation but nothing seems to help because i miss him so much and I want US back. I wish hes feeling the same way. Please give me advice on what I should do!
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Hey, sorry to hear that. I am going through the same thing. it is so hard. How you getting on? Natmariexx
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 August 2010):
 U dont need any advice ur already taking ur own!! This boy is toying with u and ur emotions, what a jerk! Move on with ur life, he's not worth the thought process. Thats good ure staying busy and u cant help but think about him but we all do that after breakups! Dont call, text, email, im, facebook, myspace, nothing..no contact whatsoever. Next start the purging process, get rid of any pictures, stuff he gave u (i usually donate it to Goodwill or Salvation Army), his t-shirts in ur drawer, all of it. Out of site,out of mind. (I know not entirely but trust me its a huge help) Give yourself a lil time to grieve and get over him then put urself back on the dating market.
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