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writes:Hi guys,Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk to her mother. She doesnt care what you say to her. So forget about reasoning with her. I tried that. Its sad because whenever we got together somewhere, we would have to go into a room upstairs, or the basement, away from everyone, or even outside to get away from her mom, and spend time together. She would always WATCH us. It really annoyed me. Anyways, my girlfriend just got a cell phone, which is great news. She also made an email. Now we can keep in touch until we meet again!! She cries and cries. She told me she hates her mom. I assured her that we will be together again. Until then, we will email, call and text each other. (Secretively) We both want her mom to remain clueless. We dont want her to know that we are talking to one another. Technology is our only hope. If she finds out, then its all over. Her mom allowed her to make an email. Knowing her mother, I have a feeling that she will be reading her emails daily. A friend of mine suggested that I make a fake email, so we can talk and she can tell her mom that its a friend from back home. I want to call her, but I'm afraid of my name and number showing up on her cell phone bill. The bill goes straight to her parents. What do you guys think about me calling her and talking to her from different places. That way I'll be all over, and her mom wont be able to know its me. If you guys know of any secret methods of talking to each other without getting caught, please let me know!My friend also suggested texting her from my itouch. Thats not a phone, so my name shouldnt show up on her bill. Thats what I need right now. Suggestions, secret methods, words of hope.We are both deeply in love, and we will not let her mother keep us apart. Technology is too advanced. (Honestly, her mother is sort of 'technology retarded' Thats were we have the advantage. She doesnt know how to use ipods, or many features on a computer. But she CAN read. If you guys can give me some inspiration about using technology to keep our hearts together and stuff like that, it would mean A LOT. Any other secret methods of communication are welcomed!! Please! Thank you everyone!!! I promised her I will text her goodnight every single night. I will tuck her in without being there. I love her with all my heart!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI remember Skype! I should do that.
Problem is.. the whole microphone thing.
I already have a mic. I'm all set. I don't know if she does.
If she doesn't, can she go out and buy one somewhere.
But don't most computers nowadays have a mic built in?
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reader, LisaSE  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Hello. I have a suggestion. If your girlfriend is computer-savvy, there is a program called SKYPE! It's free to use from computer to computer so you could literally TALK to each other as if you were using the telephone. All you each need is a headphone set with a microphone (you could also get just a mic and plug each in. There should be two plugs on your computer.)
While her mom is home with her, you can stick to the texting and emails, but when her mom goes out, she can initiate the call, letting you know she is available to talk! There is no phone or billing aspect. The only hitch is that you need to have constant access to a computer so you can leave your SKYPE account constantly logged in so you hear if she contacts you!
I do just have one little comment. Your age is listed as 18-21. If your girlfriend is younger, perhaps that's why her mother is so mad about you two. In a few years, though, it might make less of a difference. It could also be that she's got an issue with her little girl growing up, at which point, it's not your fault!
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