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writes:I am 13 i had unprotected sex with a girl my age but now i have a weird feeling that she's pregnant,and i need some advice
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reader, blue_eyes1981  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 You both shoudl have thought about the consequences BEFORE you decided to have unprotected sex. She may well be pregnant you are both to blame if she is. From here on in the responsibility lies with you and this girl - she needs to get tested you can pick up pregnancy tests in a pound shop here no doubt in the U.S you can get them in the dollar stores you have. Get about three or four as one alone may not be accurate. Support her be there for her. If the test is positive (pregnant) then you need to tell both sets of parents immediately. She will need to see a doctor aswell.
But whatever the result DO NOT have sex again wait until you are old enough and mature enough to cope with any consequences it may bring. I guarantee you are a long way from that at the moment.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 August 2010):
 When I was 13, my biggest concern was if I had all my homework done. WTF is happening here?
I guess it's too late to say don't do it, but it's never too late to say don't do it AGAIN!
If she is pregnant, prepare for your life to forever change. Not only are you going to be a child responsible for raising a child, but you'll also likely have to register as a sex offender. If she isn't pregnant, then count your graces and know you dodged a bullet. Then, learn from it and don't have sex again until you're ready to be a parent. Sex is a huge step. There is a reason why the age of conscent is 18 in our country.
She should take a pregnancy test asap. A trip to the doctor might not be a bad idea either.
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reader, AngelLady101 +, writes (16 August 2010):
well where to start as you have been told there is an average chance that she is pregnant, im guessing because you havent said here that you climaxed, which does give her more chance of being pregnant. have you both spoke about this after it happened? are you going to support her if she is? because she is going to need support off someone as i dont think her mother is going to be to pleased that you got her 13 year old daughter pregnant.in future i think you need to wait a while before having sex again as the consequences could be serious and i dont think you are mature enough yet to be having sex if you didnt think of what could happen and if you dont use protection. however i wish you all the best and hope that she isnt pregnant
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 August 2010):
 What do you need advice on?
The birds and the bees? Well that is a little late I guess.
She CAN be pregnant. What will you do? Has she missed a period? If she misses her period she can test about 5 days after the first missed day. BUY a pregnancy test kit. IF she is... you guys need to tell an adult, her mom/dad or your parents and go from there.
13 year old just shouldn't have sex.
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