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writes:Hi, I need advice, my ex split up with me in april and we werent talking for a bit, but in late may we started meeting up and spending time together, this was ok but we started spending everyday together just as friends and she would constantly tell me we werent going to ever get back together, then she told me she was thinking about it but we had an argument and stayed friends, then a few weeks later she said the same thing but was interested in another guy as well she told me and decided that she was going to go for neither of us, then a week later she started seeing another guy, then told me that she didnt know why she was with him when she still loved me, so it seemed to be going as if we were going to get back together when she turns round and tells me that we're never going to get back together, again. I feel that it's probably best to just give her space and if anything is going to happen it will eventually but just give her some space maybe? or just leave it alone and carry on?I'm so confused I don't know what to do anymore, and it's not like she's the only girl im interested in, I mean I love her it's just difficult to know wether it's worth keep tryin and see if this will happen or moven on.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (16 August 2010):
 i just answered something similar to the regards of break ups. its always best to keep your distance from months to a year. being friends can mix up what people feel and want also they crave the need for the attention they once had but yet dont want it because of the orignal reason they split up it can cause mixed up feelings.. i think your best taking a few months away for yourself and see how you feel with no contact if after several months you still love and want her then perhaps go and talk to her but i think you need a clean break of time to see whether their is anything to do or fix. good luck aphex xx
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