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Pictures of his ex on his comp. How worried should I be?

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Question - (16 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and for some reason I feel like he will never get over his ex. We have been living together for 5 months now, and he's always been very secretive of his computer, which I share everything with him because I have nothing to hide.

I had a bad feeling like he was hiding something, so like a bitch I snooped on his computer. Of course I come to find pictures of him and his ex in every folder he could possibly have. The bad part though is that there is not one picture that is not of them having sex or her naked. I was so upset I couldn't stop crying. Every time I broke up with an ex I got rid of all "those" pictures.

He swears he forgot about them, but I have a very hard time believing him and now I can't get those terrible images out of my head! I just need a way to get over it, I know he loves me and doesn't even talk to her, but they were together for almost 6 years and I just feel like I can never be like her for him. I need help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010):

Tell him to get rid of every single one. stand there are he does it. Then check back in six months. If they are still there then pack up your stuff and walk off into the distance and leave him to his 2d naked pics of a long gone memory.

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