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writes: Hello people, last week i went to my boyfriend's country to meet his parents which was in portugal, and they were a lovely family especially his mum.we've been together for 1 year and 5 months now and we normally talk about marriage and kids, however his mum has hinted it that we might get married next year.im so excited but when is he going to propose to me? after uni cuz its my last year or when he meets my family? plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Hey :)
Well, none of us can tell you how or when he may ask you. We're good, but we're not THAT good!
It's lovely that you have a good relationship; but just because his Mum hinted you might be married next year, it might not mean he's spoken to her about it. Maybe she's just hinting at the fact she wouldn't mind if you were married, we can't be certain.
At 18 - 21, you have all the time in the world to think about marriage and kids. My advice to you is not to think about proposals etc and just enjoy your time with one another. If you spend every moment with him waiting for a proposal, and he doesn't propose you might end up fustrated with him and he'll have no idea why. Just relax and have fun together, what happens happens.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (16 August 2010):
 If he is going to propose, it will probably be when you least expect it to happen.
He's obviously been talking to his mum about you. Just take things as they come, dont pressure him and try and look supprised! Theres no need to rush anything if you plan to spend the rest of your life together.
If he loves you then meeting your family will be a nervous event for him. It can be sometimes good to meet family as you can get their opinion too.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I'm sorry sweetpie89 but, we're not psychic. We can't tell you when he's going to propose. I guess we could look at the facts though. If I were him, it'd be when I'm ready and there's nothing else on my mind or on yours so, probably after uni.I hope that helps.
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