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*otSean
writes:I am physically unable to have sex. How and when do I bring that up to a potential partner? Reply to this Question
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reader, NotSean +, writes (16 August 2010):
NotSean is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I'd like to be able to keep my privacy. Doesn't saying this right away to somebody mean that they are less likely to feel obligated to keep a secret?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I would definently bring it up early and honestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): As early as its possible. Obviously not straight out, but when you have broken the ice and are starting to feel comfortable with one another.
I alway feel its best to know everything going into a relationship. Especially the things that might be a deal breaker. Imagine this; you tella woman you really like that you have some problems with sex and she decides to stay because she likes you anyway. What a great feeling that you have a chosen a gem.
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reader, LauraxLeex  +, writes (16 August 2010):
Well, I guess you just have to be honest and up front about this.
Explain to a potential partner that you are physically unable to perform sexually, and explain why. You won't hve to go in to detail if you feel it's to personal. I would do this quite soon into a relationship, the longer you leave it, th more difficult ot could be to tell her.
If she'd worth it, she will understand. And there are other ways to please a woman in bed. So not all is lost
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