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writes:I'm 15 and about to start my last year of school, a boy I like has just left he went to the same school as me bu obviously in the year above.I started talking to him a few months back when he came to the cinema with me and my friend and his friend, we never realy talked but then a couple of weeks later I saw him again at he school show and he was sat behind me with one of the girls who is on the same basketball team as I, through the full show I kept turning around and talking to my friend from the team and occasionally to him. When I was facing towards the stage I heard the talking behind me And then I heard the girl from my team say you fancy her and then mention my name so I turned round and then she told me she was joking but they continued to talk in a whisper.After that I saw quite alot of him, when I was walking through the corridors by myself at break time doing a message for one of he teachers I was walking through a corridor where he was stood on prefect duty and he was saying hello girly (as he didn't know my name) he said it a few times but I didn't realise at first but then I said hello back and he smiled.In one of my lessons I had nothing to do so wrote on facebook for someone to text or message me on there, and he did, he asked for my number and I gave him it, before long we were testing everyday and I began to trust him I could tell him anything an he has helped me through my problems.He sometimes comes to the place where I hang out and I was quite drunk at the time but he always waited for me and walked with me and came to sit with me and when I moved he even moved aswell he also started playing with me by flinging grass at me and me chasing him and playing with the basket ball he joined me I hugged him alot that night and then text him later.The next time I saw him there, he had arrived before me and he was sat at the oppiste side of he circle of people to me, and my friend kept nudging me And saying "quick look he's staring at you" but I didn't pay attention and before long I ended up sat beside him once again.Everyone have thought we liked eachoher but I have never, I asked him once if he did like me and all he said was he had never thought about it, I took this as a definate no. Not long after that I saw him at the Stockton riverside festival, however I was very upset after finding my friend has lung cancer And started crying I ran past him to he toilets to get some tissue to wipe away the tears and then again walked past him to sit with my friends again, one of them went to talk to him and when they returned they said all he would ask about was me, if I was okay, what was wrong, who had upset me ect.By this point I was sick of being led on and people Inc. One of his best female friends telling me how it seemed that he liked me in return so while I was testing him one night I told him to tell me that he didn't like me to prove me right and to help me get over him and sop wasting my time he answered he wouldn't do hat because it would brake my hear and I'd hate him, after reasuring him that Ilwe would always be friends and it would be better that way than leading me on and me getting more hurt he told me he didn't like me that way.But I want to know if what he said was true, that he doesn't like me in that way or if he was just saying it because he is shy or maybe because he doesn't realise that he does have feelings for me like my friends think ?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 The guy friends that I have can be a lil flirty at times when they dont have gfs. I dont know why they do but its harmless, I dont take it serious. Commenting on how hot I look in this dress, give me the once over, a slap on the bum..just little things like that. Theyre still the concerning friend but at the same time theyre also boys and boys will be boys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): you need to stop testing him, mayb he's telling the truth, but i fell in love with a man who said he didnt like me in 'that way' because we were work collegues and it would b unprofessional. We were both quite young and scared at the time. I was 20 and he, 24. Now 2 years on we live together and are very happy lol. You are also very young and if he doesnt like u then its not a tragedy, there will b plenty of time for men, concentrate on school and ur girlfriends. Chances r, i thinkhe probably does like you, he just seems to b, being imature about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do agree with you as I have myself always believed what he has said to me and I don't see why he would tell me he disnt like me if he did.
But even though I know we are friends now I can't see why he acts the way he does, do you think he is leading me on or just being a bit flirty with me ?
I honestly do not believe that he would purposely try to make me believe tht he liked me just to be able to laugh in my face and hurt me though.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 August 2010):
Ur a lil young to be getting drunk..but then again I dont know the legal age in Britain..hoping its reasonable. If he said he didnt like u that way then he means it. He just wants to be your friend nothing more. Dont give it anymore thought, find another boy at ur school, im sure there's a few more u'll fancy. Good Luck!
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