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anonymous
writes:This is probably a rhetorical question but is there any way to control precum?I seem to be getting it even just when kissing with my girlfriend, it can get to a point where it can be a bit embarrassing.
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reader, Mitch Man  +, writes (17 August 2010):
Enjoy it, man. It's what makes you a man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the additional answers, I guess its not so bad after all :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): I have never had pre cum prior to foreplay, but itf you get that much, just tell her..."wow..a lot of pre cum...guess you really turn me on". I dont see the problem. Most women probably find it flattering just like guys like to get a girl wet. You're normal, it's natural, just roll with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): From all my experience..it happens naturllly. Sowwy!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 August 2010):
 You can't control it, same way a girl can't control when she gets wet. Why be embarrassed by it? I find it very flattering when there's a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Cerberus
Thanks for the advise. I have tried different types of boxers but none seemed to help. Tissues is a good idea though!
@dirtball
No not tried that, thanks for the advise. It may work.
@Gabrielle
It can get embarassing because it can look like I have pissed myself depending on the ammount of the stuff LOL.
@honeypie
Yes I guess your right, I never saw it like that :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): I get a lot of it too. There's nothing to be embarrassed about as long as it doesn't stain your trousers.
Women don't care either, as honeypie said most of them take it as a sign that they really turn you on.
To my knowledge there's no way to control it, it's a natural reaction to arousal.
I wear good layered boxer shorts and have a packet of tissues handy anyway. Just in case.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I've never learned of any ways to control it. Have you tried masturbating before you get together? This may reduce what you have brewing and thereby the precum as well. I don't know if it will work, but it's an idea.
Everyone is different. Some women get super wet too. A good partner will embrace the aspects we may be embarrassed by. Good luck!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Never met a guy who could do that. Why is it embarrassing though?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Not that I know of. I think you just need to remember that it happens because your GF REALLY turns you on. THAT is a good thing ;)
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reader, LittleAlfie +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I'm not a doctor, but it's my understanding that a little bit is natural. It's your bodys way of preparing for intercourse. It can even happen during a simple hug. It's your bodys natural lubricant. Even still, wear a condom, because it is not uncommon for that little bit to impregnate a woman.
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