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writes:Hey Peoples ! , Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and we've decided to have anal sex so there wont be a risk of me getting pregnant , will he still have to wear a condom though? and is anal sex good? Thanks , :)
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reader, Cloverfield  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I wouldn't recommend it for a first time....... there are many, many things that could make it a horrible & painful experience for you. Additionally, if it's his first time then it'll be over so quick you wont get anything out of it.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Anal sex might be illegal for your age group believe it or not.
You are still a minor, and the law for vagina/penis penetration and anal penetration might be different for your territory. Look into it before your bf gets arrested for statutory rape/sexual assault. As a minor you simply may not have the right to consent legally, even if you agree to it, and your parents can potentially have him charged.
-Frank
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reader, person12345  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 If you've never had sex, I wouldn't go for anal for the first time. If you wear a condom and use it correctly, you won't have to worry about getting pregnant either. They're very effective when used correctly! If you're nervous you could also get on the pill, which is 99% effective. I'd advise you either have normal sex or oral. Anal is not a good thing for a beginner to try. There are so many contraceptives out there, and you can get almost all of them without having to involve your parents. Condoms really are very effective so long as you follow the instructions. As well, if they fail you'll know and can take plan B.
Some people love anal sex, but a majority of women think it's extremely painful. Most women I know who've done anal with their boyfriend said it was the most painful thing they've ever done in their life and they only did it at his request. If you're inexperienced, I'd leave this one well alone for now. Anal is not a substitute for sex, it is a completely different sex thing and generally mostly only pleasurable for him. If you're not wanting to rush into sex, why not do oral sex? That feels great for everyone, can't get anyone pregnant, and it's much less messy. If you have anal sex, there will be feces involved, plus it smells and you need about a gallon of lube. You can tear your rectum doing it wrong, and I guarantee you that the first time you do it, it is going to hurt. A lot. Normally I would just give you the usual lube, warm up, condom, go for it etc... but seeing as you've yet to have sex, I strongly advise you not try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): Yes anal sex is amazing perfectly fine and yes wear condom ...let him start with he's fingers and a lot of lube to enlarge your *ss hole and then let him go really slwoly because it will be paintfull the first time and after that you will enjoy it more then ever :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): Anal sex is ADVANCED stuff... and you need to be prepared and smart about it. Read up, don't rush, learn slowly. and YES, wear a condom... for many reasons: (1) it makes his dick smoother and this will reduce the discomfort as he slides into you and (2) it eliminates the potential that he'll get a bladder infection... which woman suffer from, but this is one of the only acts where a guy stands a chance to get one.
go slow... don't rush this and THINK about it... you can do serious damage and you're going to need more information than your going to get here....
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