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writes:i did talked to my ex- bf for a couple of days after a month of not communicating with him. But i hope god can forgive me for what i have done just for him to talked to me again// and change his mind set( i hope)...i told him a Drama excuse just for him to talk to me,, and he did. He throws me jokes and teasing as he usually do.. and god knows how i did miss his laugh and all of those jokes.. but after that, i am still not happy.. because i was thinking why i need to tell lie just for him to talk to me again. maybe its a asshole thing, but i really love him and don't want to loose him///
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know.. but thats the only way i can talked with him, and i will make sure he will not know that i lied at him untill he got back here in our place..
i know you will not understand me, but i am moving on but i just can't really understand why there is still a night when i was really crying and asking why he left me because of that facebook thing only.. he knows how much i do love him. and i really can't imagine that for our 3 yrs of being together it will just end because of the facebook thing..pls somebody help me...
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 But you have lost him. Time to cope and move on. Lying to someone just so they will talk to you isn't healthy. He has moved on in his life, and it would be best if you did the same. If he learns of your deception here, you will drive him further away. If he wants to contact you, he will. What you did is a manipulation tactic, likely similar to the ones that drove your relationship apart.
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