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writes:I'm fifteen years old, and I am still in my 34 A's in bra size. This may not be a major problem, or something to worry about, but I just don't want my breasts to be this small, especially not at my age. Maybe I'm going through the road when everyone my age worries about looks, but I've been trying to grown something on my chest for 2 years, since I was 13 I've always tried exercises, and eating right, anything to get my chest to be at least a little bigger, but nothing works. My mom tells me that they'll come along in time, but she's been saying that since I was 12. And it bothers me so much. Any idea on how to make these babies grow? Or should I just wait? I been thinking about getting breast implants at around 23 years old, if my breasts aren't big enough by then. I just don't wanna be in the A's anymore! Its really embarrassing. I know it shouldn't be, but it really is to me and my self esteem drops because of it. I have no boobs to fill in any shirt. I've got the chest of a 12 year old and I hate it so much!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I was u in high school, in fact I was a triple A..lol I think i made that size possible.. Dont stuff with tissue or socks it will come out, dont do those water bras either bc my cousin's leaked (in public)...Padded bras were my secret, Victoria's Secret makes really well padded bras..ask ur mom to take u in there or go with ur friends, dont be afraid to ask the ladies for help bc they most likely can relate to u and they know what u need. After I got out of high school, my boobs finally increased to B when I was 20, I gained a little weight and now im a C. Youre young right now, and u gotta give ur body a lil time to transform into womanly curves..Dont worry, it will most def happen!
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reader, Blod  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I know I'll just repeat what everyone else has already said but I know how you feel! I'm a small 30B, and it's very embarrassing! Throughout my teens I was desperate to grow and ashamed of the way I looked. I'm still very self-conscious, especially in a bikini. I feel like I'm stuck in the body of a twelve year old.
I would love to have my best friend's figure - she's curvy and is a DD cup. But the thing is she's actually jealous of my figure! As everyone's pointed out already, there are pros and cons whatever size you are. And I think today's media is making us concentrate more on the cons. When I flick through a magazine I don't notice the gorgeous flat-chested models, I'm looking at the celebs who've had a boob job. My friend is the opposite.
The only thing you can do is take a look at your mum. Whatever size she is, you'll more than likely grow to be around the same size. I'd say you've got a good few years left to grow so there's no need to worry yet.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 August 2010):
 The ladies here gave great advice. I thought I'd pop in with a guy's perspective.I love natural breasts. It honestly doesn't matter to me the size. I like little breasts. More than a mouthfull is a waste. ;-) Of course, that's nothing against you lovely ladies with bigger breasts either. Like the others have said, you're still growing. I'm glad to hear that you're not wanting to get surgery right away. Give it time. I have a feeling that they'll still grow for you yet. I also have a feeling that you'll appreciate them more as you grow older.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I agree with what everyone else has said. Try to love your body shape for what it is, because it's the only one you have! I've always had bigger boobs, somewhere between a D and an F, and I find it very hard to love them at times. I'd love to have had smaller boobs as they would be much less hassle! Small boobs are lovely in my opinion, as they stay lovely and perky! Whereas mine are already saggy. Plus you can go bra free. I have to wear a bra all the time when I'm awake, or I worry they will sag more. And I know this will inevitably happen, because there is more gravity exhurted on bigger boobs. They have stretch marks also as they grey really quickly when I was a teenager.
Another thing to remember is that your body shape and bra size will change constantly throughout your life. There is a very good chance that your boobs will get bigger. Some people are late bloomers and get bigger boobs at the end of their teens. My boobs have gone from a DD to an F in the last 3 years. They will change as your body changes. So in the meantime, try to love your boobs for what they are, and make the most of them. Wear low cut and backless outfits and try not to worry. Also there are many many men who love small, perky boobs, much much more than big ones.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Big breasts are over-rated, really. In fact you seem to have largely sensible views on this. There's every chance they'll grow to around B-cups in a couple of years, which is a lovely size to be. Even if they don't, it's essentially moot because (like with men and penis size), it's how you carry your figure that counts. Confidence and the right dress-sense can do more for you than an expensive boobjob. Oh, and keeping fit helps - nothing makes small breasts look better than when they're on a toned body.
In any case, you've said that you would want to wait until you're 23 before you go under the knife, which is a sensible stand to take. If at that age you still really think it's something you want to do, sure, go ahead, but for now, quit worrying about it.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Sexlessintheuk and maverick494 have it completely right - you really dont need to be worried about this!
Now I am coming from the big boobs camp - I had 32 DD boobs at about 14, and guess what? I hated them! And I now have 34 E boobs aged 23 and guess what? I still sometimes wish I had small boobs, about a 32/34 B would be nice!
So basically we all wish we had something we have not got - of you have small boobs you want big ones, and if you have big boobs you want small ones. This is simply the way us girls work, we always want what we dont have!
But what we need to learn is to love the way we are, everyone is different and we should celebrate that, not try and conform to one body shape. Look at women like Kate Moss, plus 99% of all the supermodels, and Keira Knightly, Cameron Diaz, Nicole Kidman....etc etc. They all have small boobs, none of them with any more than a B cup. And are they still attractive? Do men drool over them? Of course they do!
Small boobs are great - it means you get to wear any clothes you like without worrying if you can wear your enormous bra under it, or you can wear any swimwear you want without worrying if your boobs are going to pop out if a wave suddenly hits you! Big boobs can be a nightmare, you get stretch marks, you cant wear any clothing with tiny straps or backless, low front etc because you need your sturdy bra under all clothes at all times! I would love to wear a backless dress but that will never happen, under no circumstances can I go bra free!
Aged 15 you are still growing, and the chances are you will continue growing until you are 18-21. There is no way to force them to grow, you just have to wait and let nature do its job. And if they never really grow much more than they have now, well you need to learn to love them. Because they are part of YOU, they make you who you are and this is the shape you were meant to be. The chances are if your boobs are small the rest of your body will be in proportion, so to have big boobs will look silly!
Be proud of what you have, I bet you are gorgeous and bigger boobs wont make any difference to that. Highlight your other assetts and learn to love your shape. And there is still chance they will continue to grow but dont force it, they will grow in their own time!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (16 August 2010):
Girl, at your age I had a cup AA. Sure, I felt bad about it, but accepted my fate. I looked up to girls like Keira Knightley and Natalie Portman, who seemed to be in the same boat and learned to appreciate myself for who I am.
Now I'm 22 and I have grown a C. I was a late bloomer. At 18 I still had a small B-cup. Durin
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): Hold your arms out and pull them back as far as they will go. do this as quickly as possible chanting 'I must, I must, I must increase my bust'
After doing that 500 times go and look at pics of high fashion magazines of Kate Moss.
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