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writes:I have recently gone on vacation and met this amazing guy. We started out as friends but, by the end we started to really like one another and we even shared a goodbye kiss. Sadly, we live hours away from each other but, we still keep in touch now and talk to each other almost everyday and I feel like we have a really good connection even with the distance. I am also 95% certain we will see each other next summer. But, when I got home my old friend that I haven't seen for a long time asked me to hangout with him (he also is my good friend's crush). Of course I said yes but, I realized after being with him that we were into each other more than the last time we met (more flirty so to speak). I had so much fun and in the end he kissed me on the cheek and said we have to hangout again soon. I was wondering, Who should I choose? I am leaning towards my old friend but, a part of me feels like I am betraying my summer love (who is still into me) and a part of me feels like I am betraying my friend's trust. Is it selfish that I don't want to say no to my old friend? I am letting things take there course but, I still don't know what I am doing. Advice would be greatly appreciated :)
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reader, xAx  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 It would be selfish of your good friend if it bothered her that you two dated, as he likes you not her.
In my opinion, summer loves don't last. Especially when they live far away.
I think that you should try to keep your holiday guy as a friend for HOLIDAYS and date your good friend.
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