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How do I tell her that she needs help on her technique?

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Question - (21 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How do you tell your babymother that she needs help with giving head. Is there an easy way, and what do you tell her to do. Even though you know that she says just tell me anything, and you know it will hurt her feelings to where she might not do it no more.

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (21 May 2009):

Who agony auntMight want to start the conversation with asking what YOU can do to be better. She may not want to tell you, so gently encourage her without haranguing. After you two have talked through what she wants, I bet she will ask you what you want, and you can follow the good advice given below.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

it is like teaching how to drive... do it while she is giving head... I like it when my man does that... think about it... when your going down on her... you like to hear... just like that.. or do it like this, lick there.. etc.. WELL do the same... you cant hand someone the keys and say go drive... you have to give direction... and if you do it while shes giving you head she wont get the female reaction of "why didn't you tell me ive never done it right... blah blah blah... " you don't want to hurt her feelings and doing it out of the bed might do that..

good luck

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A female reader, sbarr10 United States +, writes (21 May 2009):

Start your message with what she is GOOD at, then say that whatever it is you don't like feels a little too intense for you. Then suggest trying something else. "I really like it when you ___. But ___ is just too intense for me. Would you be willing to try ___ instead?"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

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I think you should tell her straight like that. You need a helpbook on giving head.

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