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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My heart says that I fancy this guy, yet my head says that nothing will happen between us. I'm 16 and there is a three yr gap between us.He makes me laugh and I enjoy being around him, and he does tease me - sometimes I retort back, sometimes I pretend to be annoyed although he knows I'm joking. He does touch me the odd time - not in a sexual way, more like a nudge of encouragement. He does give me some sort of half-compliments, like when I said I played the piano, he said that he'd heard that I was good. We dont' text each other alot like I do with other friends, but we always have a good time when we see each other. I guess we're friends but not really close ones.Do you think he could fancy me? Perhaps not now because of the age difference, but in one or two years time I would like to be his girlfriend. But I'm afraid that if I leave it too long then we would never be together.Thoughts please???
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reader, KaylaLeeann  +, writes (21 May 2009):
the age difference isn't really that bad :)
it seems like yall have fun :)
soo.. go ahead & take you're chances!
you'll never know till you go for it :)
like they say..
follow your heart (:
i wish you the besst of luckk! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): this happens with loads of people, i think there is a boundary and if your going to express your feelings it should be before you hit that boundary, the boundary being just friends, stay friends with some-one you like for too long and a more intimate relationship is abolished. This is no cause to panick, look for more signs and a time thats right just don't regret it.If he doesn't like you back, ask to stay friends and you can always admire from a far. x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2009):
There is no way of telling. It could be that he just sees you as a little sister and nothing more.
All you can do is put it in the hands of fate. Enjoy your crush, live your life and if it is going to happen then it will. If it's not then it won't.
Don't worry about things in the future as you cant control them. All you can do is enjoy the ride.
Good Luck!! xx
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