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writes: i dont think im a bad guy, i help out my friends when they have problems comfort people so on, i'd never beat up a woman or anything, ect ectHowever i find my falling for a girl in my year that is taken, we've been friends for about 3 months but know we text everyday and when i'm not in she's says she misses me, tell me alll of her problems in y=her relation, puts herself in sexy situations, we'll be chatting and she'll be like, Back Soon Going for a shower? X, and say like im great fit ect, what im trying to say is i think she likes me to, but i aint enough of a dick to do sommatThe other thing is, her and her Bf keep splitin up n havin fights over stupid things, she's sick of him, and i wanna look out for her and tell her to dump him but if i do , it looks like i'm doing it so i can be with her, and i dont wanna get that reputation, Plus, i know that if she was single, she's be all over me ( not to seem big headed ) So what do i do? Just leave it, or tell her that she desevres better, let them end, make a move and ger that rep?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): have your way with her then move on, she trouble, she is untrusting.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 why don't you tell her to think about what is best for her?
tell her to do whatever she thinks will make her happy.
and love-strucko is right if she talks to you like this while she is with someone then how do you know she won't be like this if you guys possibly got together?
i mean if you're with someone you shouldn't go around texting other boys saying "i think you're fit" it's unfair on the guy in the relationship
and if they break up over silly things i'm sure it's not that big a deal.
but tell her as friend that if she's had enough then tell her to do what is best for her.
maybe she really confides in you and that's why she says she misses you and stuff.
i mean she possibly likes you as well but then if you are getting with her don't do it straight away and be careful as if she's texting you like this then who knows who else she texts.
hope this helps and best of luck to you :)
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 My best guy friend told me to end things with a guy that I really liked. Not because, he liked me, just because he was looking out for me. Turns out the guy I liked was playing me all along, and I really thanked him for that, he was the only one I would of listened too.
If you really think this guy is not right for her. Then, I say tell her - from a friends point of you, not because your interested. Tell her you want whats best for her, and if SHE thinks it's not with him - then she should end up.
But, remember, this is not your choice to make, and if she wanted to end it - then she would on her own.
ALSO - please be cautious, because if you DO end up dating her, what makes you think she won't talk to guys, the way she talks to you? She doesn't seem very faithful - whether she likes her boyfriend or not, a relationship is a relationship.
If they do decide to break up, and shes interested in you, and your interested in her. I suggest you wait awhile before making ANY moves. That means containing yourself - even in the heat of a moment.
Yes, personal life is important but so is a social life. Unfortunatly for us, we do have reputations to hold.
If things are meant to be - everything will fall into place in the end.
Good Luck
xx
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