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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy asked me out, but he's a real player. but i have seen him be really sweet and nice, i'm just afraid he might cheat. should i say yes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): I dont know but i guess you should say No.. i mean if ur sensitive then u should know that sooner or later he's gonna like someone else and cheats on you.
thats how guys act.. especially hot ones .. they just do anything to make you fall in love with them and then when u do .. they get bored ect and go like someone else...
But if u wanna try.. just have fun and live your life but expect that he may cheat on you .
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (21 May 2009):
If he's known as a player and if he's cheated on past girlfriends, then no I don't think you should date him. Do you want to get hurt? If you don't then, just say no because theres other guys out there that are better than that.
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 HA! this was me a week ago. I started getting interested in this guy, that was popular. A jock, a football player = nice catch, right? No, not at all. At first he was REALLY sweet, tried to sugarcoat everything. He seemed to good to be true. Guess what sweet heart, it's cause he was!
Everyone warned me to stay away from him, but I didn't want to listen. What he said to me, I believed. FOOLISH!
After his TRUE colors started to show. He tried hard to get me, but once he had me - he felt he didn't have to try anymore.
It ended something like this, 'What did you think Prince Charming, was going to come in and save you, honey, this ain't no fairy tail' Boy, he was cut off fast after that.
NOW to the point, A player is a player, a slut is a slut. Excuse my language, but it's true. Yeah some people CAN change, and settle down, but at this age - it's not likely.
But I suggest if he likes you and you like him, don't do ANYTHING serious for a couple of months.
If he REALLY likes you.. he'll wait to do whatever you want to do, as soon as he asks for sex...
Cut him off.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (21 May 2009):
 it depends do you think he worth a giving a chance to? more importantly do you think that your heart is reading to take a chance at getting severly hurt? would you ever be able to trust him, if he says hes at a friends house, are you going to have a thought in the back of your mind that hes w/someone else. everyone deserves a chance but it could cost you. who knows you might be the one he doesnt cheat on, but you always have to think about the what if factor, if you can look past the fact that hes a player and if your heart can take a chance then you could go for it. but put a lot of thought and consideration into what the outcome of the relationship could be.
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