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anonymous
writes:Hi. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago because of growing tensions. We had been together over a year and talked marriage. A month into our breakup, he started traveling for work. He'll be traveling for a few months. At that same time when he left, he started emailing me. Then texting me and now he calls me almost every day. We don't talk about us at all. Our calls are light and fun and we joke and laugh like we always did.Does it sound like he may want me back? or how do I know that this isn't the friendship he said he wanted us to develop? or how do I know he isn't just lonely? He must know that calling me so often means something to me, right? He must be into this if he's maintaining so much contact with me, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): It's possible he is lonely...or just trying to play it cool.
If you feel comfortable enough to ask him, you should do it. Although, only if you are prepared for his answer.
I believe it is better to get things out in the open than just wonder.
I hope you get the answer you are hoping for!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 May 2009):
He sounds like he is just lonely and wants to stay friends.
If you are not ready to be friends then you have to tell him and cut contact for a while.
If he does want more then he'll say so. If he doesn't say so then he's just using you for someone to talk to.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Sounds like you are developing a friendship, it may be because he is lonely. I don't think he wants to get back together becuae the conversations would be deeper. X
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