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She says she'll wait 2 years but she cheated when we were apart over a weekend!

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Question - (21 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *lifeheartbroken writes:

my and this girl have been together for about 9 months. i love this girl but i've got into some trouble now im getting sent away till im 18. i'll be leaving 2 hours away from her an im 15 alomst 16. in 2 years i can come back to be with her. she says she will wait till i come back and im 100% positive i'll come back for her. but back in the past i was gone over the weekend seeing family and she cheated on me at a party but i took her back now i dont know if when im gone for 2 years if she'll be moved on.

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A male reader, ez4u2say United States +, writes (22 May 2009):

Better listen to the rest of the posters go ahead take a big swallow and tell yourself you must move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

Im sorry but us girls get bored really easy and yes u gotta admit it ladies.

I think u should move on. U seem like a great guy and im sure u can find someone alot better than a cheater.

Your young.

You'll meet alot of other girls.

Good luck

=]

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2009):

I'm sorry hun but I can't tell you what you want to hear.

The fact she couldn't stay loyal for 48 hours while you were away makes her look really bad.

The chances of ANY 15 year old girl staying loyal for 2 years are pretty much zero. The chances of you staying loyal to HER are pretty much zero.

I think you have to stop worrying, enjoy the time you DO have together and then just call it a day.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

Sounds like you have your answer already if she can't wait 2 days then I'd say 2 years will not be viable. You sound like a nice guy so don't expect much from her and end up hurt. Hope your time away goes fast so you can get on with life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

2 years is a long period of time and woman do have the tendency ... most of us have the tendency to get a little lonely and love's a big word at a young age. Unfortunately you may find you fall for some-one else in your own absence of her. Time will tell... this also gives you time to reflect and figure out whether she's worth it or if someone else comes along you won't be afraid to try out new things.

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