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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey guys im in a really tricky situation and in need of some real advice.. basically i found out my year long boyfriend cheated on me in the 2nd month of our realtionship... i didnt find out in the best way as his ex phoned me up telling me plus he denied it when i confronted him... he eventually told me the truth and its been about 4 months since ive found out... we've kinda been carrying on as normal with the occiasional massive fights in which ive come close to walking away..he re-assures me that im the only girl he loves and wants to be with hes given up his ex for me and his promoting lifestyle... he says that im the one he wants to marry and has introduced me to every1.. his parents, family friends etc...the problem is i dont know what to do.. i dont know how to go about in restoring everything... plus i dont actually know how i feel towards him after finding out.... i learnt alot about his character and his capeability and i dont know how to go about it... i still love him but this has made me see him in a different light... im not sure how to deal with any of this...please can someone guide me on this... this is my first ever relationship and im completely baffledd...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): hun my husbahd cheated on me 3 1\2 years ago, back in the first two months we dated as well, so take it from me, he made a mistake, if you love him, the be w/him if your confident he wont cheat again. since then hes been super faithful and regrets it. he has had a bad past w/women hes been in relationships w/and said he knew we were differant b/c he wanted to ask mevto come back and that he felt bad. now we are happily married and hav a baby. so if you love him give him a shot, people make mistakes, just dont let him make the same mistake twice.
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