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writes:What is usually the reson for a man, for not wanting sex at all with their wife?All opinions are great help for me right now. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):
The reasons have to do with the relationship falling apart. After a long time together people get lazy and bored with each other.
I think, you are probably right...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): The reasons have to do with the relationship falling apart. After a long time together people get lazy and bored with each other. Then the affairs can start. Each individual has a part to keep the zest going. The children the house all the responsibilities interfer. Then what do you have if you don't have all those things to distract you from your partner. I could never get through to my ex husband he already had gone to the place of shut down. It was to late we had hurt each other way to much to save our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): There can be a bit of a vicious cycle going on, too. Sex in a long-term relationship can become unsatisfactory -- dull, routine, whatever. And the longer between sessions, the more odd it can seem to initiate. After it's been a couple of months, your head starts telling you it's downright weird. You might have to lead him back to bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): It depends what else is going on in your lives...
If he is stressed out, as Emily said. If he is taking certain medications, if he is drinking excessively, and on and on.
The only way to really know is to talk to him. Ask him what the problem is. Let him know you are willing to help him work through it!
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Could be depression, stress, maybe the wife has let herself go maybe putting weight on etc maybe having an affair, working to hard!
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reader, Bambi5908 +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Maybe he feels insecure about something, maybe embarrassed if something has happened that hasen't before. I know sometimes I don't feel like it sometimes when it feels like my girlfriend would be more interested in other men, but thats my relationship not saying yours is the same. Sometimes I get insecure because I am not as good looking as the models on tv and the actors in movies, but I ask her too reassure me and then she treats me like I am the best looking guy on the planet, I guess sometimes I lack the confidence.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2009):
Hi again. Did you not ask this yesterday?
Stress is the biggest reason. Followed by depression.
Ask him and find out.
Good Luck!! xx
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