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writes:Ok I have asked a few questions on here before and I got another! I got to start off saying I love my boyfriend very much all and all we have a good relationship! Except he has lied to me that I know of once involving another girl! He was not sexually involved with her but I do have my thoughts! Ok but anyhow the past two weeks he has not came home from work until 2 hours after he calls and says he's on his way home... He don't drink he don't believe in gambling! So I don't understand why it takes him so long to get home when its a 20 min drive! He was engaged once before and he started hanging out with another chick and dumped the one he was with for the one hanging out with him! I am so scared it will happen to me! We just bought a house have three kids and "I" was planning our wedding. He just picked out the colors! Anyhow what are you opinions on this what should I do? I have asked him what is going on but he tells the same story! EVERY TIME I ask! I got to know before I get screwed like his ex did... Please help me out he won't even have sex with me! He says its because I'm being mean!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLast night was a bad night! He came in his normal 2 hours late and I was mad! Then he took off bitching! When he came home I told our kids to tell daddy bye that we were leaving! He got all whiney swearing he has not done anything wrong! So I did him how he does me I made rules for him! Do you think that was wrong to do?
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reader, 48years  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 Wow, you are in trouble,,,and you've got 3 18-year contracts with this bum.
Trust your perceptions...you've seen this behavior before with him... you know what's coming.
Do whatever you can to protect your children and ensure that they have a good future. Get documents of his to copy, and then get out. ESPECIALLY if you have a daughter. Don't teach her to be subservient to a man nor to accept whatever crumbs he cares to give her.
You can do this...I did.
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reader, ez4u2say +, writes (22 May 2009):
You can spy if you want too but if a guy doesn't want sex he is getting it somewhere else. Sorry but that is harsh reality. He is not worth it apparently this is a history that he will repeat over and over again with whomever sticks around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's hard to do because he hasn't been taking his work truck he has been taking our family truck so I have no way to leave our house at all! And yes I had been being mean but its only because he is feeding the same story of his where abouts! I mean he don't tell me he loves me. I get nothing from him! I tried getting all dressed up one day to maybe spark something yeah that was a waste of time! I'm lost on what to do!
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