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writes:How to make a good wife to my husband during bed or sex time? Reply to this Question
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reader, Who  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 La Señora Interrogador;
Si es difícil que usted lea las respuestas en Inglés, yo puedo intentar traducir a Español, tal vez. Mayo tarda una cierta hora. ¿Usted tiene gusto?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): hey everyone who advised the female. when i read the one liner i though the site aunts and uncles were going to give the poster a hard time, especially "interpreting" her "problem". her explanation/expression not being very good . good one everyone. very good advise and also thanks for not making her feel "small". you guys and gals are the best.
keep it up.
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reader, Who +, writes (22 May 2009):
The advice below about communicating with your husband is good. Only he knows what he wants and likes; no one on this site does,
However in your culture and society it may be difficult to talk about these things, even for couples married for a while. Especially if you and your husband are Catholic he may (not saying he does I’m just guessing) look upon you as the chaste mother of his children, and not want to talk too explicitly about sex. Again only you know if this is true or not.
But you can still communicate sexual ideas without talking. The ideas listed below about dressing in sexy underwear for bed are good. This tells him you are interested in pleasing him and being sexy for him. In Japan, married couples used to have “pillow books”, a book drawings of sexual positions kept by the bed. Each person would mark pages of what they were interested in, for the other person to see and know what would be good to try. If you want to try this, the book “The Joy of Sex” is a good one, with lots of drawings. Or you can try to make your own pillow book by printing out pages you like the looks of from this site:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
Remember, you don’t have to like or try everything you see in these books or sites.
Lastly, sex time is not only about you being a good wife to your husband. It is also about you, and him making a good husband to you. You should not do things you don’t want to just because you husband want them. There are millions of things couples can do in bed; you two can find the things you both enjoy.
Best of luck and hope this helps.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 May 2009):
 Yes, just enter "Double M on - just about anything on heterosexual activity." A good deal of experience to be shared if interested in a mature perspective.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 May 2009):
Well, that's very much an open question that requires a book in response. Gina and Felina's recommendations are excellent, but the short answer to your question is: "to become increasingly adventurous at every opportunity." If interested, many of my more focused suggestions about mutual sexual activities between men and women are archived on DearCupid. For one, check out "Double M on
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reader, ez4u2say +, writes (22 May 2009):
All men have egos. Tell him how great he feels and how big he is even if he is not. Talk dirty but not trashy and always make some noise of enjoyment.
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reader, misswalston +, writes (22 May 2009):
 What are the things that you like to do? Are there any sexual things that turn you on. First, you always have to feel what you are doing in order for it to flow smooth. Do you like oral sex? Doggy style? There are soooooo many positions out there, you can have endless pleasure. Try oils, creams, go to the kinky shops and get some ideas. Wear sexy lingerie and do strip shows for him. Go for it girl!!!!!!
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reader, Felina  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Hi there.Well,I believe the answer to your question is : comunication , making a connection...
To have great sex ,you need to connect with each other.Feel what he feels ,understand what turns him on.Talk in bed ,dirty or not.Ofcourse man love some kinky toys and clothing ,but I think the most important thing is to comunicate .
Why dont you surprise him whith a strip tease (wich is not easy at all to perform...),or maybe some crazy porn ,or even telling him a kinky story you made up ,just for fun .
I shure know that a long relationship ,after some years ,well ,sex just isn t the same .Time goes by ,and you just have made all the kamasutra in your bed .So at this point you have to take sex to a diferent level ,a cerebral level .Talk ,talk talk....About sexual fantasies ,fun ones ,and secret ones that you have never told anyone about.....
This is my opinion.Hope I heldped.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Take it Uncle Phil...
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