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anonymous
writes:Ive met this guy hes 29 im 22, we have been on 4 dates and email and text everyday, they were great dates and were so attracted to each other lots of kissing...he lives about a hour away from me ive now asked twice to go back home with him, hes said no becoz he respects me and thinks we should wait and knows if i stay with him it will lead to sex....the issue is he has two kids....and the mum broke it off with him...so im just worried does he not like me that much? could he still be with the kids mum? Im just very confused! Should i stay clear?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): not stupid, just young and perhaps too hopeful, maybe a little naive.
ok,i will now stop teasing you)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe never married her, i know its drama but i just can't stop thinking about him :( Maybe im just young and stupid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): he sounds a bit too messed up and are you sure you want to be with him. he is not divorced, has 2 kids, resolved feeling for the ex ( who is not really his ex, but still his wife)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe broke up i think over a year ago.....she broke it with him tho cheated on him, and becoz his dad left etc when he was younger he wanted to get back with her and have the perfect family 2 parents together etc, but we spoke about it and he said he doesnt even know what he wants now, but he knows he cant stop thinking about me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Trust your gut but after only 2 dates surely you can wait a bit longer to have sex with him.
and watch out for his wifes existence. why would you hink he is still with her? how long have they "broken up"
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): It's possible he is being sincere...but not likely, Most men, are ready for sex by the fourth date! He may be hiding something. Perhaps he is still with her, or maybe he moved back in with his parents, and is embarrassed to tell you that. But it seems to me he is hiding something.
Proceed with caution...trust your gut!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2009):
Dashing into sex is probably how he ended up with 2 kids in the first place.
What you have on your hands is a gentleman who wants this to go right.
Just because you haven't sniffed round all the corners of his home for other women doesn't mean he's cheating on you. It means you are paranoid.
If he was going to cheat on his girlfriend with you why would he not just get a hotel or stay at yours?
Good Luck!! xx
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