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writes:A few weeks ago, I finally told him that I liked him. Straight up. Face to face. Honestly.I didn't ask him how he felt about me though, I was too scared. So instead, I asked him if we could be friends, and he said that yes, cause he loved me very much. He was happy and smiling through the whole ordeal. Not in a mean way though. Anyhow, a few weeks after that, he (with my friend's encouragement) came up to me and told me how he felt about me. He said, that he did not like me. He was very nervous about it while I just tried to be nonchalant about it. He was looking straight in my eyes but I couldn't meet his stare.All I said was I know, in a 'I-know-and-don't-care' voice.But now, the staring keeps on increasing and my friend told me that when he caught sight of me he he started acting like a "panicking rat" and that he "couldn't take his eyes of me".Before all this, my friends(and some others) thought that we were together because of the way he acted around me. And things were going well before we had this falling out and he started becoming CLOSE to this girl. Things hasn't been the same since. Their still some kind of tension when we talk.Does he like me? Or does he not? I'm just confused! If you were in my shoes, what would you do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jesshton  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 You can never really tell what is going on in a guys head. It could be that he felt there was some type of pressure from you and your friends and that may be what's causing him to react the way he does. Guys don't like to feel pressured into anything. They like to chase girls...so let him chase you. Be nice to him, but DO NOT bring up the fact that you like him again. And ask your friends to stay out of it. If he thinks you are losing interest he may see the error of his ways and come around. If not...then he was probably someone you didn't need to be with in the first place.
Good Luck!!
Jess
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