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writes:emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent.im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago.However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip was in me, it was quite thin and scrunched but we didnt really think about it at the time.i got home though and ive been thinking is there a risk i could have got pregnant even though his penis was never unprotected inside me and he never came in me. i just need to know if there is a chance that any of his sperm fromthe condom could have got inside if me.please help cos if there is a possibiliy i dont know what im meant to do? should i take some emergency contraception and where do i get it from... a family planning clinic or contraception clinic near by. i cant buy any from a chemist because i am under 16.thankss x
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (9 June 2009):
 That's a huge relief for you! Phew.
Basically I doubt the lad gave all this another thought, and yet it's us girls who have to worry about getting pregnant.
Therefore please be careful in the future, a bit of fun isn't worth all this stress is it. We all make mistakes, the important thing is to learn from the situation and not get into this situation again, as it's not worth all this is it.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive had my period and am not pregnant so im very happy (: thanks evryone for the advice x
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (22 May 2009):
If you are bleeding, that's fine. You will be getting a heavy period and you'll be relieved that you are not pregnant.
Basically if your boyfriend doesn't take care when removing his penis after ejaculation, this is when the condom falls off inside you. Basically he has to remove his penis straight away, keeping hold of it, to be sure he knows the condom isn't slipping off. Then once he's well away from you, he can remove the condom.
This happened to me once, the guy was a virgin and he hesitated before removing his penis at the end of sex. I guess we all have to learn, and it's us girls that bear the brunt of that as we end up taking the morning after pill and suffering the heavy period as a consequence.
Just be sure he knows for next time.
I am just glad you have peace of mind now.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I'd still go and get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side you can get it for free from your doctor tomorrow or you might be able to find a 24hour pharmacy where you can buy it for around £20.
If you phone NHS direct on 0845 46 47 (I know it looks too short but that is the right number) they can tell you where the nearest 24 hour pharmacy is for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for your advice quick update im bleeding now is this a good sign or a bad sign
and this wasnt my first time so i cant think of a reason why this has happened?
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (21 May 2009):
 You can buy the morning after pill from the pharmasy even though you are under 16.
Any form of contreception can be sold to anyone over 13.
Go straight away and get it either from your doctor or the clinic.
There is a chance you could be pregnant.
Livia
xoxox
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (21 May 2009):
 This is the advice on the NHS website:
There is a risk you could become pregnant but taking the emergency contraceptive pill can prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
The emergency contraceptive pill is most effective if it's taken within 24 hours of unprotected sex. But it can still be effective if it’s taken up to 3 days (72 hours) after unprotected sex. The sooner the emergency contraceptive pill is taken after unprotected sex, the better.
You will need to get the emergency contraceptive pill yourself. You cannot ask a friend, relative or partner to get the emergency contraceptive pill for you.
For the age group 13 - 16 years, emergency contraception is available from your local family planning clinic, GP and some community pharmacists.
The emergency contraceptive pill is available free from:
- Any family planning clinic
- Some pharmacies
- Any genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic or sexual health clinic
- Any NHS walk-in centre in England
- Any young persons' clinic or Brook Advisory Centre
- Your GP
- Some hospital accident and emergency (A&E) departments
The NHS website has a tool where you can type in your postcode and select "sexual health services" and then it will bring up all the nearest places for you.
It is better to be safe so make sure you get the morning after pill and then you will have nothing to worry about. Most hospitals have walk-in clinics where you can get the morning after pill, so maybe try that first. Or phone your doctor and ask the receptionist what is the best way to go about getting hold of the morning after pill today. It is very important you do this ASAP because the pill is more effective the sooner you take it.
I think it might be a good idea to also book a doctor's appointment so you can get birth control, while condoms are important you have experienced first hand that they can go wrong so you always need that back-up of the pill or the injection etc. And dont worry about your age, doctors have to be confidential at all times and they will most certainly prescribe you with contraception, after all they would prefer to prevent teen pregnancies than encourage them!
I hope this helps!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2009):
Put the name of your town and "family planning" into Google.
The clinic should come up on the NHS website.
They have drop in sessions so you don't need an appointment. Just go along and talk to them and they will give you the morning after pill and talk to you about other forms of contraception. You could try going on the injection AS WELL as using condoms.
Your risk of pregnancy sounds low but it's better to be safe than sorry.
If you can't get there tomorrow then most have a session on Saturday mornings so you could go then.
Have a look on their website and it will have all the details.
Good Luck!! xx
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