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anonymous
writes:I have been spying on my live in boyfriend for two years. I use the computer software but I have recently purchsed a gps for the car. He has been talking marriage I am in love with him but after spying I have caught him talking to his client in an inapproprite way. Which I confronted him with this but I just need more information. I know this all comes down to trust so if I find nothing more will I be able to trust him then? Or worse yet am i hooked in a toxic weird relatinship with him?Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): your way to obsessed that this guy might be doing something behind your. its ok to flirt even if your in a relationship. he probably hasnt done anything w/them. trust? what trust? you dont trust this poor man if you wanted to. this is out if hand. have you EVER, had a reason to suspect hes cheating? why would he marry you if he is?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): yOU ARE A FREAKY STALKER.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Man if i found out you were spying on me id smack your head into a wall. He is entitled to his privacy as you are yours stop being so damn nosy!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 May 2009):
If you have been spying on him for 2 years then it means you haven't trusted him for 2 years.
It is doubtful that you will ever trust him.
I very much doubt that this is his fault though.
If you are prepared to hack into his emails and track his movements by satellite then you are never going to trust any man.
You must realise that what you are doing is not normal behaviour.
You are addicted to this and you need to figure out why you are so disbelieving of the fact that he might love you.
Good Luck!! xx
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