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reader, Doodle421  +, writes (22 May 2009):
Doodle421 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe broke up with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): what are you going to do when she finds someone else? When she falls madly in love with him and has fantastic sex with him?
never leaving her sounds wrong... I think you mean "I should get over her and accept that she doesn't want me except maybe as a friend - that's if i can get over sounding like a stalker"
relax a little - girls come and go - this one was not for you.
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): I think you should tell her how you fell about her then leave her alone for a while so she think about you and what you said. And just give her a little space.
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reader, twilightdiamond  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 You catch more flys with honey than vinegar. If she doesnt like you, you're not going to get anywhere with her.
However, If you're determined not to forget about it and move on, then you have to make her your friend again.
Apologise for what you did, dont make it awkward or drawn out, don't try to justify yourself. Just tell her that you regret what you did and that you'd like to be friends again.
If she's dating another guy you really dont have a chance at the moment. But maybe if you bide your time and stop being so jealous and controlling she will become your friend, which is a whole lot better than nothing.
You have to remember that she is allowed to talk to other people, don't get jealous, especially since you dont have a claim on her.
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reader, OMG_Manda  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Pretty sure u should buzz off before she calls the cops cause um she will call the cops eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): I'm a girl and around your age and if i was the one you liked and i said i hated you then all you would have to do to get me to understand how you feel is tell me and try anything romantic... girls love presants and lots of romantic things......... I hope this helped you out Good Luck 3- Sharlie
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): She's made it clear how she feels. If you like her then respect her wishes and stay away. Sorry to say, but she won't be interested if you're trying to interfere when she's seeing another guy! If she's taken then you should definately leave it alone. If she's not dating/going out with anyone, still give her space and be yourself, and try not to think that if you give her space she'll come running to you... Just be realistic about the situation and be yourself, who ever you're around!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 You are being very creepy, I think you need to leave her alone or get professional help!
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reader, pebble +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Well it's no wonder she hates you is it?We don't always get what we want. Be adult about this and realise she doesn't want to be with you.You need to learn how to treat a lady properly. Keep this up and they'll never come near you."I will NOT leave her" Doesn't sound very sane does it?
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reader, Doodle421 +, writes (21 May 2009):
Doodle421 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe hates me because:
1. I got mad because she was hanging out with my friend.
2. I asked her out when i knew she was dating another guy.
This is dumb, really because i did not HURT her
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I would prescribe a reality check, followed by a good dose of humility. You can't make some one like you. Patience, Respect, Courtesy, and in this case long suffering are the keys to winning someone over. Right now she doesn't want you around, so to show her respect, you need to respect that wish and not be around.
Has she given you any other clues as to why she hates you? There may be some things you can work on. Remember there is only one person that you have the power to change, and that is yourself.
FA
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I think you might have to leave her alone if she doesn't want to speak to you.
if you want her to like you, give her space and do the odd nice thing for her or say she looks pretty today.
Just give her space.
Livia
xoxox
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