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writes:Hi: It will soon be 2 months that my ex and I have ended our 3 year relationship. It's been rough, I see now that he was selfish and a coward for breaking up over the phone over, I opened up my heart after my divorce, and I thought he was so nice. I was apprehensive but I started to believe that romance did exist and that I had a chance. I gave him so much of myself without holding back. The relationship had some ups and downs, but I forgave him when he cheated on me, because everyone makes mistakes... but the trust in our relationship had disappeared especially for me. I cried, and when he worked late I would just wonder. Especially when he cheated with his baby's mother. Although he doesn't get to see the child that often because they live quite a distance. My ex was constantly working because of financial obligations so I sometimes felt like I was dating the invisible man, although he would stay over, and we would talk constantly on a daily basis. I was always there for him in the good and bad. I loved him with all my heart and the breakup was very unexpected and why he did this when he was grieving the deaths of 2 family members, he stressed I disrespcted him during this time and he couldn't trust me. One day he loves me and the next I am the worst woman, I am just like all the other women that cheat and lie!!! I did not hold back my tongue, I said some harsh words especially about his anatomy and him losing his hair which is a touchy topic to him but that would get to him. I have since apologized a dozen times via phone being that he has blocked my calls. Will he ever call...am I that easily forgotten?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): he cheated on you, he isnt worth nothing, and im sure you are not that forgetable after what you said.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 May 2009):
You say he broke up with you because you "disrespected him" that's not enough detail.
I think if it was something minor then you might have had a chance once he got over his deaths and started realising what a dick he was being by letting you go.
The fact you went and put the boot in while he was down and kicked him where you knew you would hurt him most.... well I don't know if that is forgiveable to be honest.
Write him a letter. Tell him how sorry you are and everything else.
But after you post it, try to move on. You can't hang around for ever and you need to get your head right and learn to live as a single woman.
You went from divorce to new relationship very fast. Did you have time to figure out how to live alone and be yourself?
Good Luck!! xx
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