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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Heyy, i am also 13 years old!! and i hooked up (made out) for the first time a few weeks ago, it was the last day of school at an end of the year party. Let me tell you how nervous i was... i bet i was more nervous then 20 people put together i wouldn't be able to fall asleep for a week because i was worrying about it! especially since it was the hottest guy in my school and ive liked him for so long! the moral of that story was to tell you that IT IS NOT SCARY AT ALL!!!! i speak from experience and i was SOOOO nervous but once it happens its amazing you will love it and the most important thing is to make you that you stay calm and just enjoy it!! there is no specific way to make out i promise you this!! IT WILL TOTALLLY COME NATURAL!! and don't worry about screwing up because he will not even know! here are a few tips:1. make sure you have good hygiene( brush teeth, chew gum)2. make conversation (don't be oquard)3. tilt your head the opposite way of his4. make sure you don't hide your tongue5. put your hands on his shoulders6. HAVE THE BEST TIME!!!! ITS AMAZING!!!
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reader, johnny boy 6961  +, writes (2 July 2009):
don't worry about it. he is just as worried as you are..... but here are some basic simple tips.....
1) keep it simple.
2) if ur not comfortable then dont go through with it
3) dont do anything you will regret later on.
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reader, johnny boy 6961 +, writes (2 July 2009):
don't worry about it. he is just as worried as you are..... but here are some basic simple tips.....
1) keep it simple.
2) if ur not comfortable then dont go through with it
3) dont do anything you will regret later on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): its ok just go for it!tips...dont move your head too much.close your eyes.breathe with your nose.put your hands on his sholders.enjoy it and remember it.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): Im glad to see other people agree with me
Ur too young maybe u should ask ur mother this question?
Would she be soo happy to hear what ur doing??
THINK ABOUT IT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009): you are too young! dont rush, dont let anyone rush you. I agree with a few others, stop thinking about guys so much, get to know yourself, what do you like, want to do etc. You have so much time ahead of you and these types of activities should not be your concern yet.
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reader, summerain +, writes (22 May 2009):
Ok listen. I want to say this because I was a girl of 13 and am now a woman of 20-something. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with no matter if you think he won't like you anymore or not! If that's the kind of boy he is then you shouldn't make out with him anyway. Give yourself a break and think highly enough of yourself to do whats right FOR YOU. At the end of the day you have to go home alone and hopefully not feel bad about you or your actions.
If he does turn out to be a nice boy then don't worry! Kissing is something that gets better and better the longer you do it. Just start slow and keep it at your lips!
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (22 May 2009):
 Anonymous, you're still a kid yourself.
Don't worry dear, you'll do fine. Just remember to breath out your nose! Just go with the flow. You'll figure it out in no time, don't worry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): ok bbe you shudnt do it intill you want but if you feel like you need to then just go wiv it hun you cant mess it up it will just happn kiss it mak you feel better bbe wen you have mad out dont look at him cuddly him b4 you look at him and you no if he like it cuz he will want to do it agen and if he gose of you then find sum1 els bbe ther a lot more out there xx hope i help
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Im 15 and I go my first kiss couple of weeks ago idk why you kids are in such a hurry to grow up. Do you know whats after making out? Sex and then maybe u end up preagnant and then maybe u screw up ur life tottally. Can't u see how ur country is falling apart stop thinking about guys 24/7!
As for the makeout process, it's basically repeatingly kissing a guy.
If he aims for ur pants. Don't let him.
You proabably won't mess up cause it just comes naturally when the time is right. It's like an instict like breathing.
And chances are that he wont care if u mess up cause he wants to get in ur pants.
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Take it slow. Be safe. And say no to sex.
Good luck
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