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writes: i've not been in many myself, but my friend and his girl keep having argements and getting back then the smallest thing pops up, i wanna look out for him, cos that what we do, but i dont wanna see him sad cos he likes this one, when he asks for advise i'm like shit,I know deep down that i should tell him "Relationships aint ment to be this hard man" or something like that, but i dont wanna do that to him.is it true? do good relationships come easy? or do we always have to work to make them perfect? is a relationship weak and doomed to end because its hard to work? any advise to give him would be greatAlways we have this other mate, he's just started seeing this girl, he's an alreet guy, But he's been seeing her for like 4 days and they've already gone all the way?i dont mean to sound old fashion here, or stiff, but surely a relationship at this age where people have sex this quickly is gonnna end? we all think that,? Reply to this Question
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reader, niki20  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 relationships in no way are easy, it takes a lot of work. and you guys get older it gets tougher. for example when you get married its a lot of work its not i do and its easy street, thats what my husband and i thought and in no way is it easy man. relationships at a young age that involve sex wont last that long, unless there realllly into eachother and the sex and communication is good. relationships are all about teamwork. the longer the relationship and the stronger the bond is it will get a little easier, but it still takes work. i hope this helped -niki20
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Sometimes sex is inevitble, regardless of the time. If you like somebody that much, it just happens. Sometimes it will end soon after if that was all that was on the mind of one or both of the people but if they do genuinely like each other it could last.
Any relationship takes hard work and effort, even the one with your own mother can. It brings you closer together going through tough times and arguments as long as the arguments aren't dragging them down and making them feel shitty. If your friend is happy in the relationship let him be. If you can see its been a strain on him, then talk to him about it. Some couples just love to hate each other!
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