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writes:I have a friend of mine who's maddley in Love with this guy who treat her sooooo badly and she just won't leave him alone he talks to her like crap and just walks all over her.he hits her and just so nasty and disrespectful but she just can't leave him alone how can I help her by not being to much up in her bussiness I dnt wanna upset her Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Some people are just blinded by love and others are lonely and want to be loved so badly that they'll stick with the person they're with even if they treat them like shit. Others are just scared. Maybe your friend is scared of him? Talk to her about it, ask her how she feels about him, ask her why she puts up with his crap and if she's happy. I doubt anyone in that kind of situation can be happy, but you'd be surprised! Maybe you should tell the feds if he's beating her up, they'll sort him out~!
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 "Why is that we love the ones who hurt us - and hurt the ones who love us"
A question that everyone always seems to ask themselves.
I know how hard it is to walk away from a boyfriend who treats you badly or not.
I suggest you talk to her about the way he treats her, and how much better she can do, reassure that theyre are plently of boys out there - who will actually APPRECIATE her. Even if she doesn't believe it now, chances are there will ALWAYS be someone better for us out there then the person we are with.
If she chooses not to listen - talk to her parents. ABUSIVE relationships are not acceptable. I know you probably don't want to hurt your friend, but it seems necessary..
xx
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