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writes:Sorry it's long Ok I love this girl very much but I don’t know how to trust her after so many lies we have been together for 9 mouths. and it has gone great. but there was another guy before me. and I have had to deal with this is guy for a long time. They were never together but they were friends before. BUT they did sleep together. And she Brock up with her old BF because of him. So this guy goes to school in Arizona we live in new York. And when we got together we just fell for each other. we tock it slow and she did tell me all about this guy. and that she was still going to see him in a mouth of us meeting. Like I said we tock it slow but that didn’t happen. We fell in love and she didn’t want to be with him. But she was still going to get away. She came back different then she was before. That’s because he was telling her all this shit about how I was just another guy and I just wanted one thing. So she fell for it and didn’t know if it was going to work with us. But it did work and it was really good for a long time. But she wouldn’t stop talking to him. And he would not stop saying I love you baby and all that stuff. and He would texts her at like 2am. But she wouldn’t say it back to him for what I know. and she would lie to me about talking to him because she didn’t want me to get the wrong idea. but he just wouldn’t stop. So things want on and it was good. but one day she comes out of no where and tells me she wants to go to school there and she didn’t even tell me about it until the day she was going. I KNOW it was really fucked up so she has been back for 2mouths now and she has told me that she doesn’t know if she wants to go there because of me. But she has never lied to me about ANYTHING but this guy so I’m in a weird plays right know and I don’t know what to do
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reader, stupidloving923 +, writes (21 May 2009):
i think you should look at her eyes when she talks about him and see what shes really feeling,or you can sit down and talk about it with her and tell her how you really feel. i know its a hard thing to do and i cant really do that myself.but if you have the courage to i say go for it!, youll show her how much you really care and prove to her that the other guy is wrong about you, and if she continues to do the same thing, no matter how much it kills you..you have to get away from her because she'll only cause you more pain. good luck man and i hope it all works out for you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): I understand completly...What i would do if i was in your position is tell her that you don't like it when they talk because you think that they are doing something behind your back ( if you want to stay with her)( or if you dont) tell her that you dont like it and that you just want to be friends...If your still confused on what to do then post another ? and i will try to find it and answer it again 3P.S. If i could choose between the two pieces of advice i would pick the first and if that one does not work then try the second and you will know if she really does love you because then she will come straight back to you...
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