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She smokes! Why do I want her?

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Question - (21 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i'm a freak right.

The fact that some girl smokes turns me on and makes me want her, why am i weird like that?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntNo you're not a freak at all, Smoking has been made out to be sexy for years and to be honest seeing a girl smoke is one thing but have you kissed a smoker?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

I don't think you're a freak. People are turned on by all kinds of different things. It might be because smoking makes her seem a bit "bad" in a way, and that might appeal to you. Or maybe she reminds you of someone you know and like who smokes, and that makes you feel fond of her. Or any other reason.

Smoking may not be the best thing in the world for someone's health, but it doesn't make the person who smokes unloveable. So no, I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all. Hope this helps. x

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2009):

Fiona xxx agony auntThere is a smoking fetish. However I don't understand that or any other fetishes for that matter.

I agree about the health implications of smoking, the cancer etc...

In addition, smoking is becoming less acceptable in the UK with no smoking in pubs etc now. People now have to stand outside the building. So in many respects people are not socializing if they are going outside in the same way, so you either go outside and do passive smoking (although the wind carries the smoke away, you can still smell it). Or you spend a lot of your social time apart.

You can tell a smokers house straight away. You never seem to get rid of the smell in the house and clothing and soft furnishings. The house would need more decorating too.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

Takes all sorts, doesn't make you a freak. One guy I met wanted me to pee on him, that turned him on!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntSmoking causes hundreds of illnesses and diseases, cancer, tumors........ She'll probably die younger that the age she would have died if she didn't smoke so if you got married then you would be arranging her funeral. Smoking decreases fertility so its likely she won't be able to have healthy children as smoking also causes birth defects. Smoking is most peoples number 1 turn off, for a lot of valid reasons! Find someone who leads a healthy lifestyle who would be worthy of building a life with. X

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