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I want to acually date him but how can I get closer to him if I never see him?

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Question - (21 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *oxy7727 writes:

I knew this guy when I was fourteen and hadn't seen him for 5 years then we meet up and hit it off. We text all the time every day or every other day but every time we make plans he always breaks them and it makes me so mad but then he'll text me the next morning and ask me how my night was. I really like this guy, I always have ever since I've known him and he's 4 years old then me. I don't know what to do... if he didn't like me then why does he keep texting me and why does he keep trying to make plans if he's just going to break them? I don't know what to do, I want to acually date him but how can I get closer to him if I never see him. I need help a lot, I think about him every day and I hate this texting thing. Any advice would be great

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2009):

Well you could tell him that a guy asked you out. Tell him you really want a boyfriend and since HE is clearly not interested that you are thinking of saying yes.

If he says he is interested then point out that he keeps standing you up.

Tell him he has one last chance to meet you and if he breaks that then you can't speak to him any more.

Good Luck!! xx

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