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Do you think he gets a kick out of treating me badly?

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Question - (21 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2009)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok.. so

this situation has been going on for a year now, i used to be really best friends with this guy who has been blowing HOT and cold with me for a whole year now. ive cried many times over it.. he would act weird and say horrible things then be all sweet and say im the most amazing girl ever etc and we would end up kissing (even tho he told me he wanted to be my friend only) he would flirt and say how much he wants me and we would end up kissing after most nights out.. my head has been twisted and confused for a whole year now and I can't get out of this vicious circle with this guy...

.. last weekend was my 21st Birthday and he said he would come out..but yup..you guessed, not even a text message from him when I asked him to come out that night. I made an effort to go to his Birthday 3 weeks ago and gave him a present and he seemed really please i arrived up :(

I have NO idea why this guy is trying to mess up my head,or if its intentionally. I really do believe he is a bit crazy treating me like this coz EVERYONE thinks he doesnt deserve me. Im a genuinely nice girl.. do you think he gets a kick out of treating me mean?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

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haha i actually understand you

in woman language

girl likes boy

boy likes girl

girl= gets confused mixed signals from boy

boy= likes girl back

girl= thinks guy hates her

boy: thinking overload/ doesnt know what to do. Ignores girl/ basically be's an asshole in any way because he is scared of his own emotions.. when will this boy turn into a MAN?! lol

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

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because he is lovely one minute and i think he MEANS what he says..then he goes back to being distant and does something horrible to me :(

your right tho.. a year is long enough. I cant trust this guy at all anymore..its sad to have to cut a friend off but he deserves it this time!

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