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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy ive met 4 times, found out his has a kid... i was ok with this as its still early days, we arranged a lunch date tomorrow then he texted me saying sorry he could not make it as he wasnt going into work, he lives far from work and i only live round corner from work so makes sense... then i asked why are you not going to work.... he text back 'issues with the ex. These things always come at the worst times' that kinda left me very confused, we carried on texting and he said oh i promise ill take you for lunch next week.... but does this all sound like im getting involved into a whole load of drama???
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 May 2009):
He has a kid, that means he has to stay in touch with and have drama with the mother of the kid.
Personally I wouldn't want to deal with that and you know this is going to keep happening as his child will and should always come first.
If you can't deal with that then no one would blame you. He has to live with the consequences of his actions just as single mums do.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Sounds more like you aren't going to be very high on his list of priorities. I would say you would have to be concerned more with him neglecting you than actual drama.
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