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writes:i saw my boyfriend yesterday at uni, he seemed very down and he told me he was tired and stressed about uni work. i dont really know what is going on, usually we hold hands walking around campus, we did, but it was loosely held. we sat on the bench and talked for a while but he seemed very out of it and wasnt focusing on the things being said. he was looking straight ahead or at the ground. he then asked me ' do you feel comfortable around me?'i didnt know where this came from ,i reassured him i feel very comfortable with him and gave him a hug and took a hold of his hand.he then asked me to sit on his lap. we hugged and kissed but not as much as we would usually. i felt helpless. i couldnt help how he was feeling, and didnt know if it really was just uni work and being tired, or if it had somethind to do with me.i slept in his bed with him over the weekend (we are 18), and everything was great. but now it seems things have had a sudden change and he hasnt sent me 'miss you...thinking of you' messages for a few days now. he also made a comment that i need to get used to sharing a bed with someone ( im not sure if he meant himself or not).im very confused. and the thing is, he is the first guy i have known that i really feel i may fall in love with. i dont want to lose him by pushing him away and i dont know what to do. Any ideas or suggestiosn would be really be appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, jayne_staaa  +, writes (21 May 2009):
maybe, he's not feeling appreciated, maybe this time you should send the miss you texts and the bed comment my boyfriend says that all the time cos i keep stealing the quilt or i can't keep still lol i'm sure he meant something like that, i very much doubt your boyfriend would tell you to go share a bed with another man. He's probably just feeling a bit down and tired make him feel really special.
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