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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im a young girl who loves her boyfriends but he is a jerk and two years later he tries to be nice all by himself i didn't ask him to.. my ex came back into my life a couple of moths ago it was 3 yrs ago we were together but i think i have feelings for him but i cant do that to my bf i do not know what to do i think im not in love with my boyfriend anymore im so confused i think ill miss hanging out with him my ex joined the army and he is on my mind a lot i cried when he left but he will be back i miss talking to him and i cant stop wondering what he is doing i want to tell him but im afraid of what he will say help what should i do work things out with my boyfriend or tell the army guy how i feel and see what he says ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): It sounds to me like you're waiting to jump from one situation to the next, which is a big mistake and a bad habit to get into.If you're not happy with your current boyfriend and, worst of all, think he's a jerk. Then why are you with him? Don't worry about what Rambo thinks, think for yourself. Keep in mind, it's easy to fall into the trap of reminiscing over old times with ex partners. However, also remember that people change over time, including you.If your ex-ex is worth it, then split from the current, give yourself some time to think about what you want, after the fact, find yourself some more and then decide. Above all, give yourself some space between guys before you wind up giving yourself whiplash.
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