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*orried64
writes:HiI have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he hasn't been able to cum or has found it hard to stay erect!! during intercourse!! He has always watched porn and about three weeks ago he started watching it more it use to freak me out because i thought he wasn't interested in me and he needed that to get aroused, Do u think he is having trouble keeping a erection cause I'm not sexy enough or ugly I really believe he must want to move onPlease any advice would be appreciated!!!thanks
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reader, Worried64 +, writes (11 January 2011):
Worried64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe hasn't watched porn for a whole day and the sex was ok but he does seem to last longer which is good but I wonder if it cause I'm doing something wrong or he is just finding it hard to cum????
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reader, heartbreaker1  +, writes (10 January 2011):
hey there
you man's problem is called OM which is over masturbation it makes him run outta cum or shoot blanks because he's wasting it all when he;s squeezing his penis harder and harder to cum when he;s masturbating which making it hard for your vagine to keep him as hard because your vagina does not hav as much pressure as his hand, and that's why its hard for him to keep his errection when he;s inside you, if he doesn't masturbate all day and haas his breakfast lunch and dinner on time, in the evening you should have a full mouth or atleast the usual amount when he cums, its very important not to get off in the morning without food cuz it sucks lots of his energy, just keep an eye on him and let him take a day of no sex or masturbation every other day or two...good luck
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reader, Worried64 +, writes (10 January 2011):
Worried64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is 27 and i'm 32
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reader, Worried64 +, writes (10 January 2011):
Worried64 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for ur kind words i will try and talk to him about seeing the doctor
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reader, The Realist +, writes (10 January 2011):
 I think there may be some medical condition or stress in his life that would be causing this. He may be trying to use the porn to prove to himself that he can still stay hard so that he can during sex. Going from all that sex to none or very little has nothing to do with you. I'm sure he still finds you very attractive and it is just something with himself.
He could go see a doctor about this or maybe find a way for you two to take some relaxing time off together. Stress is a big factor that affects the time in the bedroom.
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (9 January 2011):
 It does sound like he is starting to develop a medical issue. You don't say how old he is, but if he is similiar in age to you, then he is probably a little young to be having ED issues. For starters, a trip to the doctors could help.
Secondly, you may be having too much sex. If he is watching porn (and getting off with porn) he may not have enough stamina to serve you. For a guy who is young, that's generally not a problem, but in this case, as we get older, our ability to have sex multiple times of day dwindles.
From the sounds of it, you are active enough in sex so I don't think it's an issue with you.
Either way, it's time for a talk with him and possibly a trip to the doctors.
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reader, anonymous39 +, writes (9 January 2011):
your partner has a medical issue; tell him to speak to his doctor about the issue. This has nothing to do with you.
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