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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'd like to know why we go back to the ex's that hurt us the most?I was in a LDR with my ex for almost 2 years. Basically I found out that he was sleeping with, texting, meeting and emailing other girls whilst we were together. When I ended it he denied everything, but then admitted to it all and then sobbed and asked me back for about 3 months. But I vowed that I hated him and that he would never have me back, so he stopped asking.We've been split up for 8 months now.. However about a month ago he popped up on facebook saying happy birthday and asking how i had been etc. As i've been getting on with my life.. I told him i'd forgive, but never forget what he did. But since we talked, I cant stop thinking about him and we've talked more and more, and I know i still love him. Without knowing about the cheating.. I loved our relationship, we had so much fun, we were passionate and close and shared everything. Whyyy? Whyyyyy would i want to go back to someone who didn't respect me? Who cheated on me multiple times???
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reader, cupid_1234 +, writes (9 January 2011):
 Because you are feeling lonely, you want love, you want to feel special, taken care of, have fun, (who doesn't?) and you get all this from him... But once a cheater, always a cheater. You need to wait for the right person to come along; who respects you and is faithful. There are more important things in your life than him.
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