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writes:I am 17, he is 19. We are in a Long distance relationship, and are sleeping together. Problem is, I tend to take more than I give, meaning I am usually satisfied with the sex, whilst he gets nothing. I can't seem to stimulate him, and I feel selfish since we only get to see eachother about once every 4 months. Any tips?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): If you guys actually have sex you are light years beyond most LDR's I hear about.
If you are only worried about him being satisfied with sex with you, outside of the fact that he wants more of it, I can safely speak for men around the world he enjoys it immensely. Trust me on this. You just showing up makes his heart skip a beat.
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reader, AshyCole  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 I would suggest giving into his fantasies, and doing nothing but what HE wants. think about his likes and dislikes in bed, and go from there. Be creative and take the fun outside of the bedroom, maybe in a car, or in the back yard, or if you live in an apartmeant complex, the back balcony? try teasing him with foreplay untill he cant stand it any longer :)
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 It is good that you are able to see each other regularly even though sadly it is not very often.
I don't think you are necessarily taking more than you give, but perhaps because of the limited time frame that the two of you are spending together, he might be suffering a little `performance anxiety'.
Relax and talk to him. The LDR is not easy on either of you.
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