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writes: Hello everyone I'm in a bit of a tricky situation over a month me and my girlfriend of 1 year and 6 months broke up now after the break up we still have feelings for each other which I know is common especially in long term relationships but here's where it starts to get tricky we still act as a couple we might go somewhere for privacy and get intimate and this is where its gets way messed up she wants to give my ex best friend a chance and I know that he is just desperate and hates me to death so I'm guessing he is trying to get back at me. I know no friend whether ex friend or not in their right mind would ever go out with with an ex of a friend and well he is starting to make her feel bad for him and tries to flirt with her I know he is like this because he tried this with many other girls as well also the fact that he acts gay I know some people joke around like that but when he was drunk he tried to jerk me off and he didn't even drink that many beers maybe like 2 and I know he talks behind everyones back he is a drop out lazy and practically no future for him. I don't get why my ex wants to be with him she says she only wants to give him a chance and that I'm the only person she does love and wants to be with. I wanna know what is best for us in this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionof course i don't enjoy this drama and she knows i love her i just dont get it. i tell her the stuff i know about him but she says when they text he seems nice and they only text they never met but i know behind his nice facade he is a real ass and he has a jerk friend backing him up who is dating my ex's best friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): The best thing is to break free of it. Do you enjoy it?
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reader, hunter3994  +, writes (9 January 2011):
bro same situation my ex did the same thing but i caught them in bed together. there so many fish in the sea that are out there. i found my true love but i was an idiot and left her. for my ex it never worth an ex if they broke up with you. and diffidently if there going out with your ex best friend. that tell you that she isn't t.u.r.e to someone like you. like tennisstar88 said move on and there so many out there. and if ur in high school your never find the right person till u get out in the world, plus some girl/guys just want to be with someone to show off that they can get someone they tell you over and over that they love you that they well never let you go but it not true. it just saying, they got to show you they love you before u know it true. and not in sex. but did you try talking about this to her? did you tell her how you feel?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 January 2011):
 Wow, you and your crazy girlfriend have finally kicked the bucket. I'm surprised.
Here's the problem sweetie, your now ex girlfriend is keeping you around while she dates this new guy. Basically she's putting you on hold while she goes out and has fun with him. Now, if she loves you and wants to be with you then why is she dating this jerk? Doesn't sound right now does it.
I'll say this again, as I have said it in your previous posts like so many other people have told you..now is your chance to MOVE ON. All the drama with her is over, but yet you're broken up and there is still more drama. Do you like drama? I suggest you take your freedom and run far away from her. She'll probably treat this jerk just like she treated you, like crap.
She's not your problem anymore, she's now his.
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