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writes:So basically I had a girlfriend for 1year and a few months and I really love her. I met her in 08 by accident and my friend knew her and I would ask about her all the time. Then I moved somewhere and I found out the girl went to the school I was going to be attending I was soo happy. So we started talking but she had a boyfriend:p. Then they broke up and we started going out like 3 weeks later, and during the whole year she lied about almost whatever, not anything really big but it still hurts how am I supposed to know she wouldn't lie about her sexual past and stuff like that but she says she lost it to me and she's really attached to me. But now she crossed the line the last lie she told me she promised she would never lie again swore on my life and our relationship. Then this week we got into a fight into something that happened I think she was lying about something that happend a while back, and I don't know if she said it to be spiteful, because a girl asked for my number I didn't give it too her but my gf was mad cause I didn't tell her right when it happened I toldher later in the day, she said that a boy wants to fuck her and her friend toldher 3 weeks ago and I said you just tell me right now she said she forgot, nd all this stuff then after I told her what I was talking to my friend about because I was so upset I wassaying I really love and all this, she says im sorry I lied it happened a week ago I promise I won't do it again 2011 ill change, I was likewow ef you im done. But now I don't know should I give like her 5th chance does she deserve I really do love her I plnned a life with her and everything or should I move on cause she might never change and she lost my trust multiple everytime I build it up she loses it I dont know, she is a good person though she treats me well but its just idk what else she has to hide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): Haha don't know what it says female im male. But i told her I can be with her now she's saying that give it one more try but that's what she said last time so am like no, once again saying she will change do anything to be with me, but im still saying no, ill just give it time and see how I feel in the long haul. Thanks for the replies any other input would be nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): If there's no trust, there's no relationship. Simple.
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reader, auntygracie  +, writes (9 January 2011):
you need to let her see you mean it when you say you will not tolerate lies. Give the relationship some space and see how you feel. There is a much happier life out ther with someone you trust.
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