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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:We are adults. We are not friends. But we share a nice friendly relationship since a year. We are friends on a social networking site too. And I have noticed that of late he visits it daily even when he doesn't do anything there. I really like and respect him a great deal. I have had a feeling that he likes me too and can't act on it because of our social and domestic situations.We text mainly.When I told him sorry for a joke in case he did not like it he said I don't have to be. And that he is as cool as I am. Also that, no one asked me not to be cool and I should be just myself which is the best thing. What does it mean?Does it reveal anything about his mindset for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your answers. Abella, I think you are very correct when you say that he is a genuine gentleman with a noble way of speaking. He truly is! The way he has been patient with me is remarkable. Yes, I take it as a true compliment from a gentleman and its precious especially when you have crush on him and admire him.
Thank you.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 thanks for the followup.
From the post I deduce that he is very courteous and well mannered. And that he is a very pleasant communicator. His remarks tell me that he feels comfortable with you, and he attempted to put you at your ease, and at the same time he gave you a compliment. I think he is respectful and feels that you are the same. He
communicates as a genuine gentleman with a noble way of speaking, where he feels it important to be a gentleman and not a person who would ever act 'superior' to others (even if he did grow up with advantages others did not have).
Interesting, that he comes back to check the site regularly, without saying anything. That says he wants to keep up to date with any new posts that interest him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAbella, you can ignore the situation thing as there are many. I don't want to mention them here.
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reader, Abella +, writes (9 January 2011):
you mentioned your 'social and domestic situations'? Just so I understand the question better, does that remark about your 'social and domestic situations' suggest the you have differences, such as:
Different country?
One or both of you are married?
Widely different ages?
I only ask as I was not sure.
Thanks
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 I am not sure about what your social and domestic situation is. He seems to like you, but to what extent I wouldn't know. I agree that you should just be yourself.
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