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female
age
36-40,
*immyx
writes:This is a bit embarrasing, but I went out last weekend and got talking to a guy I have seen a few times on nights out, we ended up dancing together and chatting all night and he came back to my flat, with my friends.We had sex, and again in the morning and he seemed really sweet, I wasnt expecting to hear off him because I am very aware that most guys lose a lot of respect for you if you sleep with them so quick.This was really out of character for me and it was the first and last time I would do that.However, the guy has called me and we had a laugh on the phone, we didnt really mention the sex just how good the night was. He was gonna come an meet me an my friends last night but he didnt come, an he hasnt text or called, shall i send him a friendly text??How can I let him know that I am not a slag, without sounding like I always say it?Shall i text him? or play hard to get (bit late :) ) help me please xxx
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 This situation is on of those it is what is. So he came back to your place and you did the deed. No big deal, it's perfectly normal for women to get their kicks sometimes. But all it was just sex...there's no follow up, or let's hang out. (unless you want a FWB) You move on and go your separate ways.
As long as you know you're not a slag that's all that counts. Who cares what a guy who stood you up thinks?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 January 2011):
This situation is on of those it is what is. So he came back to your place and you did the deed. No big deal, it's perfectly normal for women to get their kicks sometimes. But all it was just sex...there's no follow up, or let's hang out. (unless you want a FWB) You move on and go your separate ways.
As long as you know you're not a slag that's all that counts. Who cares what a guy who stood you up thinks?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 I don't think you should text him. He stood you up, it's his turn to message you or get in touch with you.
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reader, faenon  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 Play hard to get for he may well have viewed you as a one nighter if that was all he was after. He called once but wait and see if he actually shows up if he arranges a meeting with you again if he doesn't don't worry bout chasing him you'll find better.
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