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writes:In college, i saw my boyfriend and he hugged this girl saw me and walked off, then while me and my bestfriend went to get some lunch and he was pressing himself up againist these two girls, and he spends alot of time with these two girls, i know he used to fancy one of them. when i asked him about it, he got mad at me, so i tried to ask again why he did it and he says he didnt want me to yell at him. but i dont think he was telling me the truth, i cant trust him. i really want to any tips on how to? Reply to this Question
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (9 January 2011):
 The only way you can fully trust him, is if he proves to you that you can trust him. If he can't do this, then you will always be wondering if there's something going on. It won't be worth the pain it'll cause.
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reader, Vicci +, writes (9 January 2011):
 maybe you should turn it around on him completely- pretend you dont care. even if it goes further that rubbing up against them, ignore it and act like you NOTICE, but you dont care, and that way he'll either take advantagew of that, or come back to you.
alternatively, go upto him and say 'this isnt working, i think we should have an open relationship'- this will leave him gobsmacked and hell come back to you in the end
good luck and dont stress, if he does go too far, hes not worth your time anyway x
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