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writes:I go secondary school and there's this teacher I like. He doent really teach anything he's a sub, but the thing is I think I've fallen in love with him. This is a big problem on its own but the other thing is he's a bit old and when i say old i mean 45(in my defence he looks like he was in he 20's!) and the thing is I'm finding it hard to get over him... and I'm not sure how to get over him... Any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-wrong-to-feel-this-way-im.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): you just have a crush on him. you cant possibly fall in love with someone you dont even know as a person! you need to have known them a long time to be in love. the expression "love at first sight" doesnt really mean that when you look at him the first time you are in love. it just means that the first time you look at someone you feel something for them. you just know that you have feelings for him and you are attracted to him, but its not love. just dont do anything stupid or reckless, because you would just be causing problems for both of you. if you said something like i like you, unless he is a pedephile, he will not feel the same way for you. even if he did, then it wouldnt work out because he is so much older, and he would lose his job.
but good luck to you
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reader, swordandredrose  +, writes (10 January 2011):
If he is a sub, he is going to leave soon so you can get over him really soon. Don't worry. Please don't do anything stupid because you can get him into trouble and he is lose his job.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (9 January 2011):
 This is just an infatuation you are having, and infatuations tend to be quite short lived, you are certainly not in love with him. Don't ever think about persuing this, just put it down to a crush and leave it at that. In time what you are feeling will start to fizzle out and you will start to notice lads around your own age group, give or take a few years. Im certain that you will look back on this later on and see a funny side to it.
Good luck
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