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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i love my boyfriend , and he loves me too. we have been in a relationship for 1year.but my nature is very suspious . how will i come to know that he truly loves me? he is asking me for oral sex, what do u think , i should say yes or no?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (9 January 2011):
That depends on you and what you want to do. Do YOU want to give him oral sex, or do you want to do it only because he wants it? Don't let what he wants dictate what you do, if you're not comfortable with something you have every right to say no.
As for knowing if he truly loves you, use this situation to judge. If he insists you give him oral sex regardless of what you say, then no, he probably doesn't love you and cares about his own needs more. If he respects your wishes and respects your boundaries, then he likely does.
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